Lindsey H asked: How do you keep from getting lonely? My husband sleeps till nine in the morning, goes to work at ten, and comes home at about 9:30 at night. We have a good relationship, I just hardly see him. I am a stay at home mom, because we are actually saving money by me not working. Daycare is expensive, and we have five kids between us.We rarely get to go on dates because there is no one willing to watch five kids at once, so we have to find several babysitters, and make sure they are all available every time we go out.Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE being a mom, my kids and I have a blast together, but sometimes I just get so lonely without anyone to talk to but my kids all day. I have sort of resorted to corresponding with people on here ( I don’t like chat rooms) , to get some kind of adult interaction. But I’ve found that usually people on here don’t want to interact beyond the questions and answers. I know this probably sounds like “Poor me” , but it’s not. (running out of room….)
I would just like to know how other stay at home moms keep from getting so lonely? We only have one vehicle, and my husband has to take it to work, so getting out within these hours is out of the question. I’m usually fine, there are just some days when I feel like ” Man, I wish I had someone here!”
To plugged in mom- Six children,Gosh! All ten and under, too. I’ve got two stepchildren, but they live with us all the time, and three of my own. They are ranging from ages 7 to 1 yr. Alot of times that is what keeps me going, is knowing there are other moms out there who do the same, or more!
To Pedro- I used to get on chat rooms a couple of years ago, and it seemed like there was always a bunch of people who would just go in there specifically to ruin it for everybody. It just seemed like a bunch of immature people who like to argue. I’m sure they are not all like that, but it kind of ruined the experience for me.
Come to think of it, that’s how it is alot of times on Answers, too, isn’t it? If I could find a chat room with people who are serious about having a conversation, and who don’t ruin it by turning it into a chance to bash someone, or wanting sex, that would be great!
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